| Greetings! 
             Welcome to the November 2003 edition of the Clarity Success 
            Coaching Newsletter! For this month's newsletter, and for the next 
            two issues of our newsletter, we are going to continue to focus more 
            specifically on the individual aspects of the STAR Within You that 
            we touched on in the last couple of months. This month we are 
            looking at the letter "T" for Tenacious with Standards.
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                | STARs are Tenacious with Standards |  
              
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                  In September's newsletter, we talked about the 
                  attributes of a STAR. We define a STAR as someone who shines 
                  brilliantly in their field of endeavour. They are people who 
                  perform a skill or exhibit a characteristic that we can look 
                  at and appreciate that it is being done at a high 
                  level.
  We use the "T" in STAR to represent Tenacious 
                  with Standards which means that STARs: -have high 
                  expectations -have high personal standards -get what 
                  they need to deliver -practice, work and play at meeting 
                  these standards -set an example for others
  STARs 
                  expect things that most people don't. They expect great effort 
                  from themselves and from their people. They expect bigger 
                  results - and consequently they get them! 
                  One personal example of this element of being a STAR that I 
                  have witnessed is the example that John Furlong set for his 
                  team when they were vying for the Olympic games for Vancouver. 
                  Something he said to his team was, "There is no medal for 
                  second place in this Olympic bid."
  A second example of 
                  being tenacious with standards was exhibited by former US 
                  President John Kennedy during the space race of the 1960s. He 
                  said very clearly, "We WILL be on the moon by the end of the 
                  decade." And they were. He also said to his congress that if 
                  they were not going to commit everything to the space effort, 
                  then he felt they should not commit anything. 
                   Every time one person drops the ball with ethics or 
                  morality or truth we all suffer. But when one person raises 
                  this same bar, we all win. One of the underlying messages 
                  about being tenacious with standards is that STARs do the 
                  right thing, even when it's difficult or 
                  troublesome.
  In order for STARs to be tenacious with 
                  standards they have to know what they need in order to deliver 
                  and they have to know how to get it. Some STARs are considered 
                  prima-donnas because they won't perform or present unless 
                  everything is perfect. What they are really doing is getting 
                  their needs met and asking for high standards to be met as 
                  well. In order for super-STARs to shine and entertain us, they 
                  ask to have their high standards met. 
                   In what areas of your life do you have high 
                  expectations?
  When do you deserve the best?
  When 
                  have you tolerated mediocrity in yourself and 
                  others?
  When was there a time where your expectations 
                  could be raised significantly?
  What do you need to 
                  perform at a higher level?
  What support can you get to 
                  be more brilliant at what you do? 
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                | Inspirational Quote |  
              
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                To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice 
                  the gift.
  Steve Prefontain, American Distance 
                  Runner
 
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                | Recommended Reading |  
              
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                | "It's Not About the Bike" by Lance Armstrong 
                   Talk about tenacious with standards! Armstrong's first book 
                  focuses on his diagnosis and recovery from cancer as well as 
                  his triumph as a cyclist. This is a man who expects nothing 
                  but the best from himself and quite possibly, this attitude 
                  saved his life. A great read. 
                   For other book reviews please visit the Clarity Success 
                  Coaching web site and our 'library'. 
                   Clarity 
                  Success Coaching Library » 
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